Hi Patrick,
I think that you are getting yourself bogged down with this.
Everyone who has advised you is right in their way. I know that as Brian suggests, 'Deep Cycle' batteries are the best option, but as you point out, due to your location, these are not readily available or are prohibitivly expensive.
Yes, sealed car batteries will do the job just as well, but as Brian has pointed out, they don't like to be fully discharged.
To me, you are missing the obvious, the children will not be using the car 24 / 7, so just put the car on a '24v Trickle charger' over night. If you can't get a 24v one, use a couple of 12v ones, one on of each battery, every day. This will keep the batteries topped up, and a good one will have a cut off function when the batteries are fully charged.
Hope this suggestion helps you Patrick.
Keep Smiling,
Regards,
Mark.